Women can usually tell pretty quickly whether the guy they’re seeing is a good match, but working out whether the man sees things the same way can be really tough! Just as we saw in one of our blog posts, how does a woman in love behave, there are also signs which indicate if a man is in love, or at least if he is interested in you.
You can tell if a man is in love with you or if he is interested in you from the following signs:
Does he call you? Does he want to meet with you again after the first date?
Men who are in love or who are really interested in you will call you! If he doesn’t, perhaps you should be looking elsewhere. If you’ve just had your first date, he might message you straight afterwards to tell you what a great time he had. He should also be asking you for a second date pretty quickly. If he leaves it a while, he probably isn’t interested in a second date or in you, and excuses such as “I don’t have time at the moment…” are usually just him being evasive, showing a lack of honesty. If someone really likes you and wants to see you again they will make the time – this goes for men too!
Can he wait or does he just want to get you into bed?
If a man is in love, he will wait until you’re ready to take the next step. If he just wants to get you into bed, he’ll try it on quickly and if you say no then he’ll lose interest pretty quickly. If that’s the case, you should distance yourself – Mr Right wouldn’t behave like that.
Does he tell you important things and show you his weaknesses?
Men usually find it difficult to show their weaknesses. If things aren’t going his way and he talks to you about it, that’s a good sign: he trusts you and doesn’t have a problem showing his weaknesses in front of you.
Does he seek out physical contact with you?
If you’re doing something together and he’s constantly trying to make physical contact with you, that means he likes it and can definitely imagine there being even more physical contact 😉
Does he listen to you attentively?
Or would he rather talk about himself? A man who is in love would like to know as much as possible about you, takes time to listen to you and shows an interest in what you are doing. And if he can still remember what you talked about when you last met up on the next date, then you must really mean something to him.
Does he exchange loved-up glances with you?
Exchanging loved-up glances and looking deep into one another’s eyes is very exciting when you are just getting to know one other. Does he look deep into your eyes? Then return his gaze, as that’s a good sign that he might be in love with you and could imagine things developing with you.
Does he get nervous when you meet up?
Just like women, when men are in love it manifests itself as uncertainty and nervousness when you meet. You can tell by his body language whether he’s interested in you or not. You can recognise the body language of a man who is in love in the following way: if he’s constantly jittery or if he’s behaving in a strange way somehow it could be that he’s nervous and he’s trying to cover up his nerves. If he’s sitting in front of you with his arms folded, he’s closed up and may not be particularly interested in you.
Has he introduced you to his friends?
Just as women like to introduce men to their girlfriends, men do the same. Has he introduced you to his friends yet? If so, you can be certain that you mean something to him and that he can imagine things developing with you. If he hasn’t done that yet then you should wait, as this may still come 😉
Does he give you gifts?
If he gives you gifts then that’s a good sign that he may be in love. But if he listens to you carefully and knows what you like and what you don’t and then gives you something you’re particularly into then you can be almost certain that he’s in love with you.
Does he laugh a lot when you spend time together?
Meeting someone you like and with whom you might even be in love will certainly put you in a good mood. Does he laugh a lot when you spend time together, is he in a good mood? Then he definitely likes spending time with you which is a good sign.
The following check list will help you to tell if a man is in love with you. The more of these questions you can answer with a “Yes”, the more likely it is that your Mr. Right has fallen in love with you:
|Does he call you?|
|Does he want to meet up with you again after the first date?|
|Can he wait or does he just want to get you into bed?|
|Does he tell you important things and show you his weaknesses?|
|Does he seek out physical contact with you?|
|Does he listen to you attentively?|
|Does he exchange loved-up glances with you?|
|Does he get nervous when you meet up?|
|Has he introduced you to his friends?|
|Does he give you presents?|
|Does he laugh a lot when you spend time together?|
Being in love can manifest itself differently in men than in women but some aspects are the same. Indeed, not all the aspects we’ve covered will apply when a man is in love, as all men are different, but we at pjur love do hope that we’ve helped a little bit to find out whether he might be your Mr.Right ❥